How it all began.
Kyla & Brian
We met at a Halloween party in 2019, hosted by some of our close friends Ally and Ryan Gritti. We were two of the few single people there and it turns out we were exactly who the other person had been waiting for. Since that night, we’ve built a life that feels unmistakably us. We share a love of coffee, Southeast Asian food and Taco Bell, adventures to state parks with our pups, and traveling whenever we can. We also play on a volleyball team with friends, which is equal parts competition and comedy. At home, our two dogs, Roam and Finn, bring endless joy (and a little chaos). We now host the Halloween party every year and have an absolute blast cooking up spooky treats and dreaming up fun, slightly unhinged games. From the beginning, our relationship has felt familiar, fun, and full of curiosity. Six years later, we're best friends, true loves, and fierce partners in life. We're finally ready to make it official!
The Proposal
I planned the adventure the way I always do, with maps, snacks, and just enough ambition to make it memorable. What I didn’t know was that Brian was quietly planning something of his own. The ring traveled with us hidden in dry bags and pockets, narrowly escaping discovery more than once. At one point, I almost found it while transferring a book from one bag to another. So close, yet blissfully unaware, never digging quite deep enough to discover what he was hiding.
The Boundary Waters welcomed us like an old friend, cool mornings, loons calling across the still water, the steady rhythm of paddles dipping in unison. Northern Minnesota is where we learned resilience, where teamwork became second nature, where we figured out how to navigate wind, portages, and the unexpected together. It’s where love grew quieter and stronger with every shared mile.
Near a waterfall, not far from the place I first told him I loved him years prior, Brian asked me to stop for a moment. The water rushed beside us, constant and alive. There, at the water’s edge, he asked me to be his adventure partner for life. He offered a ring of emeralds and diamonds - forest and water held in stone - and suddenly everything made sense. The way he’d been nervous and smiling all day.
I said yes (obviously).
On our paddle back to camp, still glowing and a little stunned, we helped some lost canoeists find their way. It felt auspicious, a fitting first act of our next chapter. We kept our engagement just between us for a few days, letting it belong to the water and the trees before sharing the joy with the people we love.
Northern Minnesota will always be special to us. It’s where our next chapter began.
And the rest is history.